On wash day, you can give her a small section of her hair (in the front so that she can see in the mirror) to help wash and detangle. This is a great way to teach her the basics of how to do it. As she grows older, you can add more hair for her to do. Eventually, she'll be able to do her whole head!
Editor’s Note: Shaunic Jay writes on one of the most important aspects of having the next generation of black women love their own hair, that's teaching young girls to care for their natural hair. Note, I didn't say cover up their natural hair or chemically change their hair, but CARE for it. It's critically important that these little girls understand that their hair is a gift from God and that they can keep it beautiful, healthy and growing with some tender, loving care. Here are some article highlights:
Start early teaching her what to do at bath and bed time.
As early as 5 or 6, you can start teaching her to moisturize her hair depending on the thickness and/length of her hair.
Let her help wash and detangle her hair on wash day.
Perhaps you had a few hair-related setbacks in 2014, be it heat damage, severe breakage, or something else. Remember that a LOT can change in one year, including your hair, and for the better. Start fresh, make necessary adjustments to your routine, and you should see progress by the end of 2015. For extra motivation, check out these YouTubers and their dramatic one-year natural hair journeys.
Editor’s Note: It's always good to see black women doing their thaaang' and growing healthier, stronger hair. These five natural hair Youtubers have made great progress in their natural hair journeys and deserve big props. I will embed one of the vids here but be sure to check out there black hair channels and learn how to grow healthy black hair like they did. And subscribe to their videos, let's show each other support! Here are the 5 Youtubers to check out:
The film (Dear White People) is partly about the black characters coming to terms with the white characters, and partly about the black characters coming to terms with each other—with the many different possible ways to identify as black.
The characters’ hair becomes a stand-in for their relationship to their identity. As the story unfolds, each character chooses to transform their hair in some way—except for Troy, who tellingly chooses to not change his hair at all. The superficiality of appearance is directly connected to our deepest notions of identity. Olivia Pope from “Scandal” has walked in and out of the White House for every episode of the show without ever revealing to its interior what her hair really looks like.
Editor’s Note: Sonia Saraiya does a good job of highlighting the big year that natural black hair had on television and films in 2014 in this year end review, I'd actual never even heard of "Dear White People" before reading this article, but I'd like to give it a look now and I think I will. It's good to see more of natural black hair on display, I look forward to the time when it won't be so rare that it needs its own article. More than that, I look forward to it being shown in a good light more consistently and presented as beautiful because it is. Here are my article highlights:
Without a doubt, the defining moment for natural hair this year was Viola Davis’ character Annalise Keating taking off her wig in “How To Get Away With Murder.”
If there's one way 2014 introduced texture and variety to the cultural landscape, it's in the realm of hair.
Olivia Pope from "Scandal" finally showed off her natural hair in the fourth-season premiere.
Article Snippet: "Her hair is just wild," Rooks notes. In this version, Annie is played by the African-American actress Quvenzhané Wallis, who was nominated for an Oscar for her role in Beasts of the Southern Wild. And Rooks says Wallis' hair, as Annie, continues to stand out.
Editor's Note: A very uplifting article talking about the new "Annie" movie coming out and the new dynamic of having black hair as a central part in the promotion of the movie. I am just now hearing about this movie, I've been out of the loop but I'd like to see it now. My boy Jamie Foxx is in it too. Here are my favorite quotes from the article:
"The 'fro is too political or too threatening or too black or something?"
"what we hear is that white mothers do not know what to do with black children's hair."
"It's difficult for us to find cultural productions that are about the love and care of little black children, I give them two thumbs up for that."
Look, I have a good sense of humor so this Chris Brown song spoof by Top Rope Zeus is funny, but it's also kind of messed up.
I truly believe natural hair is amazingly beautiful on black women and things like this just discourage them.
First off, homegirl's hair just wasn't done or looking right, the length wouldn't have mattered and natural hair is not synonymous with short hair. There are plenty of black women with natural AND long hair. In fact, that's the end goal of many "big chops". As a black man I think it's great that women are going natural.
If you're relaxed and thinking about (or already transitioning) because you want your hair to grow, going natural might not necessarily be the answer! Take stock of your current hair care routine, do a little research, and then ...
Comment Section Quote of Interest: You’re absolutely right you know.
We African women pay such little attention to our real hair (natural and relaxed) and then wonder why our hair isn’t long or full. We use creams, oils and all kinds of fake hair and traumatize our scalp and hair so badly, they rarely recover.
Mothers should already raise their girls with the awareness that the hair they're born with is right for them. Berry’s advice above works.