When we decide to go natural, we are consciously deciding to embrace our natural hair and subconsciously deciding to accept our true selves.
Meaning, we are making the choice to be independent of all external sources of “beauty” by showing the world who we really are and relieving ourselves of permed strands for kinky tresses. We are deciding to let go of the fear of not being accepted and deciding to embrace our true-selves. These are some of the key components of self-love.
Lee’s Article Highlights:
- I loved the point about how naturals are changing what they look on the outside while transforming what they are inside. It’s so true. I’ve often said to friends that most natural women have a different swag and confidence. That confidence makes them sexier and more fun to be around. True some people will always have an ugly spirit no matter what, but for the most part, naturals are transforming as people in a positive way.
- It takes true confidence to KNOW you are beautiful and believe that, I want my daughter to feel that type of confidence. Just know that, you are not alone. The world is starting to recognize your beauty, something that’s been covered up for too long.
- Just realize that going natural is more than what is happening on top of your head, it has a lot to do with what’s happening inside of your head. Keep going, and know that you have support.It’s a beautiful thing.