What’s Up Black Hair OMG fam! We have more stories and natural hair journey pictures for you.
As you know, we have begun featuring the natural hair journey stories for members of the Natural Hair Lovers – BlackHairOMG.com Facebook Group. The group has been a great source of information and camaraderie, there have been some really helpful natural hair journey regimens shared in the community.
It’s been really cool kick it with the ladies and it seems that a lot of newly natural women have been helped a lot from the advice given by those with more experience.
Last week we had Johanna Denny’s natural hair journey to start this series and went over very well with our readers, so were going to keep this series of hair journey stories going from the BlackHairOMG family. If you’re part of the natural hair group and have a story to tell about your regimen or motivation for going natural, contact me on Facebook and I’ll tell you how to submit your story (300 word minimum), natural hair journey pictures and I’ll share it with the world.
So let’s get to it. Our 2nd ever family member natural hair journey….
My Natural Hair Journey #2: Sabrina Royster
Looking back, I’ve honestly been headed toward this journey since I was 10 years old. That’s the year I got my first relaxer.
That was the first year my hair fell out. I was devastated. However, when I turned 13, I tried a relaxer again. This time I tried a more mild relaxer thinking this would solve the problem. It took a year and a half before my hair fell out, but it all broke off–again. I was ashamed of my inability to grow hair the way everyone else seemed to accomplish so easily. My hair has never even been shoulder length. Since that first relaxer, I’ve done just about everything to my hair.
I cut it all off, colored it, pressed it, relaxed it, weaved it. There have been many ups and downs, but the most notable was spring of 2012.
I had started a natural journey in the winter of 2011 after the birth of my daughter. Her curls were beautiful and inspired me to rediscover my own. My twin sister and a good friend had both been natural for some time already so I decided to stop straightening my hair. I dyed it a rich brown hue and was loving every moment but struggling with styling and starting a good hair regimen. I made the unfortunate decision to go and get one last sew-in. The stress of a crumbling marriage, in conjunction with a weave braided and sewn in too tight left me with a bald spot the size of Kansas. Again I was devastated. I felt less of a woman with my crown destroyed.
I realize in hindsight that returning natural was just a small part on my larger journey to find myself. I started losing weight, did my first big chop and decided to do a year heatless. The colored ends slowly broke off and in 2014, I finally had an afro I could be proud of. My soon to be 4 year old daughter loves to get her natural styles and she always says she wants her hair to look just like mine!
I wanted to show her that she’s already beautiful the way she is and so am I. I’ve still got a lot to learn on this journey and when I want to give up, I stare at those big brown eyes looking up at me and press on. My ultimate goal? Long healthy beautiful hair completing our portrait of being just us.
A huge thanks to Sabrina for sharing your story about natural hair growth journey and natural hair journey pictures.
If you are a member of the BlackHairOMG Facebook group and want to send in your “My natural hair journey” blogs, contact me there and I’ll tell you where to send your info and put your story up on this blog to inspire other naturals.